Three principles of life reversal that I learned through interviews with 5,000 people.

It is Oprah Winfrey, so famous that there is no one in Korea who doesn't know.
She is the host of the Oprah Winfrey show, which has topped the daytime ratings for more than 20 years. Unlike her success, she went through a really difficult childhood. Oprah Winfrey was born as an illegitimate child and was sexually assaulted by her cousin when she was nine years old. He also fell into drugs because he couldn't overcome the mental confusion.

 

However, she overcame everything, hosted the best talk show, and has a good influence. Her speech at a university contains valuable values that we all have to keep in mind.

 

I want to leave only three things for you. I can do it with 10 or as a lifelong class.
But if these three things do that, they will lead you.

 

1. First, the most important thing is to know yourself.

I can answer who I am. And what I want. Whenever I go abroad, I get embarrassed by this question.
"What is your job?" I stood up for 10 minutes and agonized.
Am I the host of a talk show host? That's right. Is it a business woman or an entrepreneur? That's true. So I leave it blank or I'm self-employed. I asked a wider range of questions. "Who am I really?"

My answer is the child of God.

The former Pierre de Charden says he is a spiritual being who experiences human beings. Because I'm connected to the source of everything, everything possible becomes possible for me. That's who I am. Then what do I want? I just don't want to be a successful person.

 

I simply don't want to be famous and leave a legacy. My answer to that question was that I wanted to satisfy myself as the most ideal and sincere human being. You must have a vision of life or something. Even if you don't know what the plan is. There must be a direction to go.

I wasn't originally a woman who liked to go for a drive. When I has a boyfriend, he says,

"Let's go for a drive." But I was wondering where you were going. Is our destination set?
Do you have a plan? Or are we just going for a drive?

 

This was a good metaphor for life. I hope you'll be in the driver's seat of your life.
Otherwise, life will manipulate you.

2. Second, you must find something that contributes.

마틴 루터 킹이 말하길 모든 사람이 유명해질 수 없지만
모든 사람은 위대해질 수 있다고 합니다. 왜냐하면 위대함은 기여에 따라
결정되기 때문입니다. 우리는 모두가 유명해지고 싶은 세상에 살고 있습니다.

우리는 그저 유명하고 싶은 사람을 존경하고 유명한 것이 가치를 가져다 준다고 생각합니다.
사실 이 모든 것은 모두 시간이 지나면 사라지게 됩니다. 

만약 여러분이 가장 성공한 사람들을 본다면 그들이 알고있던 모르던간에
그들의 기여에 대한 패러다임이 있습니다. 

 

 

3. The third one is really simple, but the most difficult one.

It's always doing the right thing. Be excellent. People will notice it. Think about what you notice. Hasn't Taco Bell given you extra tissue and sauce? You'll notice that. You'll want to go back to that person. Even a taco bell reveals its excellence in itself. Be excellent. Let that excellence be your brand. As far as I know, you will not be forgotten if you become excellent. People will remember you, and you will stand out.

So doing the right thing even if no one knows you're doing the right thing. This will bring you the right thing. I promise. Why? Because the third principle of exercise works. Every action has the same reaction. This is the truth in our lives.

Who I am and what I want. I think everyone should be able to answer this question. It's the most fundamental question for humans. Here, most people try to set up something that looks grand. Who I am and what I want don't have to be great.

Rather, being conscious of others makes it harder to know who I am talking about here and what I want. I'm making my own life.
I don't need to set it up by someone and no matter how insignificant it may seem, I'll shine brightly enough in my own domain.

 

 

4. Arrangement 

 

This is the most prerequisite for us to live independently. What's really interesting is that it was very strange to hear "Let's go for a drive." They say that the question will be solved only when you tell them exactly where to go, not just go for a drive. She says that a life without setting a destination leads to a life by its surroundings.

The second is that you have to find something to serve. If the purpose of my existence has been set,

I have to think about what I will do next. She says that no matter what job it is, the common part is service. You should use your abilities, but it should have a service aspect to others. Because it affects the local community around us.

What Oprah Winfrey emphasized at the end was "Always do the right thing." It's really hard. But it's a word that we always have to keep alive in our hearts. We can't always be perfect at 100%. It's always hard to make the right choice. I'm so used to doing wrong that there's a saying, "Human beings always repeat the same mistake."

The more problematic here is to act wrong and repeat false words to cover it up.
Unlike in the past, this is an era where you can't cover the sky with your palm.
If you try to cover up the wrong behavior, it will cause a bigger problem.

The best thing is to do only the right thing, but if you do something wrong, you have to do it right away to correct it. It's beneficial for us to create the right behavior.
If you experience it and feel the value it gives you more, You will get used to doing the right thing more than before. Even if the result is a very minor change, a huge change begins inside me.

 

Let's make a small change starting now.